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Shame Test

20 Questions
3 Minutes

Do you feel too much shame?

Shame is a negative emotion that bubbles up when we feel we fall short, making us embarrassed about who we are. We want to hide. It can lead to negative self-evaluation, worthlessness, and even mood disorders. See where you fall on this shame-proneness scale.

Using the key below, answer the questions based on how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement.

Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Strongly Agree
Agree
1. I struggle with feelings of worthlessness.
Disagree
Agree
2. I don't share my fears with other people.
Disagree
Agree
3. I often avoid social situations.
Disagree
Agree
4. I rarely feel bad about my mistakes.
Disagree
Agree
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5. I know that people judge me poorly.
Disagree
Agree
6. I feel shame about forgetting to help a friend.
Disagree
Agree
7. I have a hard time accepting compliments.
Disagree
Agree
8. I readily feel embarrassed when in public.
Disagree
Agree
9. Sometimes I feel unlovable.
Disagree
Agree
10. I feel defensive much of the time.
Disagree
Agree
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11. I rarely feel bad over another person’s unhappiness.
Disagree
Agree
12. I feel hopeless quite a bit.
Disagree
Agree
13. I rarely feel relaxed without feeling shame.
Disagree
Agree
14. I don’t deserve my good fortune.
Disagree
Agree
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15. I don’t share my secrets, because people will think bad things about me.
Disagree
Agree
16. I feel shameful about my inadequacies.
Disagree
Agree
17. I let a loved one down and I feel shame.
Disagree
Agree
18. I am fine when I don't meeting other people’s expectations.
Disagree
Agree
19. I prioritize my own needs, not the needs of others.
Disagree
Agree
20. People say I take myself too seriously.
Disagree
Agree
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Who Is This Test For?

This test is for anyone who wants to examine their level of shame. It’s designed for adults and is not intended to be prescriptive.

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Sources

A Psychometric Evaluation of the Guilt and Shame Experience Scale (GSES) on a Representative Adolescent Sample: A Low Differentiation between Guilt and Shame. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health. K. Malinakova.

What do the TOSCA guilt and shame scales really measure: Affect or action? Personality and Individual Differences. R. Giner-Sorolla

Conceptual and methodological issues in the assessment of shame and guilt. Behaviour Research and Therapy. J. Price Tangney

Introducing the GASP scale: A new measure of guilt and shame proneness. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. T.R. Cohen